Last Saturday, I took the boys to see "Where The Wild Things Are". The movie based on the children's book. After my wife read multiple reviews and comments about how bad and how kids shouldn't see this movie, we still went ahead with our plans. The book, by Maurice Sendak, is for relatively young kids, and is really a very short story. The charm of it mostly being the illustration and the imagination in invokes. So I wondered how Spike Jonze was going to turn a this book, which can be read in about 5 minutes into a feature length film.My first complaint to the folks that said this movie is too scary for kids, I'm just not sure what movie you were watching. I didn't find any suspense in this movie. There's some yelling and arguing that goes on between characters, but nothing I would consider frightful. Even though the monsters are imaginary, they represent real life in that people are fallible. Folks don't get along easily in life. Humans (and monsters) are dysfunctional. That's truly the beauty of this movie. Max has a hard life, lonely and afraid, things don't work the way he wants them too. He's on the outside. Some of the same things that lots of kids face. The movie portrays very well what kids go through in life and helps the viewer to really step into the story. When Max fights with his mom, and runs away (replacing being sent to his room, in the book) It's real life. It's not some fluffy interaction that might happen on the Brady Bunch. This may be considered something kids shouldn't see, but I beg to differ. In the context of the whole movie, this is exactly what they need to see. To be able to see that parents stink sometimes, families will let them down occasionally, people, in general, are broken and suffering too. When Max runs away, and comes upon the monsters he hopes that he has found his ideal place. It turns out that everywhere he goes, no matter in real life or his imagination, people are the same. Yes, this is a sad commentary on human existence, but in the end, he decides if life is like this everywhere, then he should go back to the people that truly, and realistically love him, his mother and sister. People who he can also love back in the same way. Realizing how important they are in his life, even if they let him down sometimes.
I am so glad this movie doesn't sugarcoat real life. Did my boys get the full meaning of the theme? I'm not sure. Do I think they at least got pieces of truth through it? Definitely. I believe it was very worthwhile to bring them. And I thought the movie was brilliant.
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Sounds like a really great movie. I'm glad you liked it, and you still took your kids to see it even after some forewarning reviews. The lessons learned seem to be great. My husband and I will definitely have to watch it sometime.
I am so glad you see things the way you do! Thanks for taking the boys and letting me shop! :)
Glad to hear an opinion from a friend. I was 75% sure I was going to take the older kids based on the realistic themes but you may have sealed the deal. I enjoyed your comment, "It turns out that everywhere he goes, no matter in real life or his imagination, people are the same." Because don't we all try to escape the pain and hurt of relationship at times? But to know that there is even disappointment on the island created by our own imaginations... there is a joy in acceptance that we are all limited.
After seeing it 2 weeks ago in California, I was wondering what you guys would think of it. I was impressed by the imagery and the creativity in creating an imaginary world. I appreciate the attempt to not have everything work out perfectly but typically look for a little more resolution and a little less ambiguity in the conclusion. I agree with you that it teaches a valuable lesson about confronting who we are no matter where we go, or run off to. I enjoyed the movie but was disappointed by Sendak's attitude in the Newsweek article http://www.newsweek.com/id/216997/page/1
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